Heading into the new school year can feel like a welcome change for many parents. A return to in-person school means no more virtual/home schooling and hopes of a more “normal” routine.
It can also mean more stress, less time spent with kids, and more wondering where time went. To remind dads that you can still build bonds amidst the time crunches and busy-ness of the fall season, this week’s Facts for Fathers series is all about play.
In less than 10 minutes, dads can make play a great way to connect with their children, release stress, and create memories. We hope you find time for play – no matter the age of your children.
If you know a dad who could use encouragement or would enjoy this information, please share this blog with them. The insights are from our “Fact Marks for Fathers” resources. You can download this resource or a hard copy of this resource can be purchased on our store here.
Daddy, Come Play With Me
Play helps children
- Explore and understand their environment.
- Develop their brains – using all their senses and growing their ability to think.
- Learn what they can do with their bodies – coordination, balance, and strength.
- Learn and practice new skills – paying attention, planning, using tools.
- Develop social skills – learning how to get along with other people.
- Learn about life – the lessons of play are the lessons of life for a child.
- Have a good time – play helps make children’s lives enjoyable and happy.
There are many types of play – much more than toys and games:
- Hands-on exploring and experimenting with real, everyday objects.
- Arts and crafts: Drawing, colouring, pasting, painting, playing with playdough or clay.
- Music play: Singing, dancing, and moving to music.
- Nature play: Digging in the dirt, collecting leaves and rocks, hikes in the woods.
- Physical play: Running, jumping, climbing, wrestling.
“Play is children’s way of being part of the world they live in. Fathers can support play by giving their children chances to play and by being involved with their play.”
Dad’s Role in Play
You are nearby and available, but not directly involved in what your child is doing. You may be watching, cheering them on, or doing things side-by-side.
You do things that interest and excite your child. Read a story with a silly voice; put on a puppet show.
You can give instructions about how to play. You can also lead by following their choices and ideas. The idea is to help without taking over.
You are playing with your children and doing what they want. Sometimes this means being the jungle gym or enjoying a tea party.
How to play well
- Provide a place for children to play safely and freely.
- Give them toys and people to have fun with.
- Have toys that are suitable to your children’s age and ability.
- Play with your children:
– Watch what your children do and follow their lead.
– Use their actions, words and expressions as your guide
- Give your children some time to play on their own.
- Let them have fun.
Find more resources by exploring our site or going to our resource store.